A Hue Of Friendship

A Hue Of Friendship

Thinking back, there are so many memories about high school and the friends we had back then. And as the decades passed, we talked to fewer of them. People you think you would be friends with for life, at some point drift off, never to be heard or seen again. But, a few friends will stay with you forever, thick and thin. No matter what happens, they will be there for you to support you. They want to help you and be there for the good and bad times. They ask you to go with them and do stuff. Treasure of these individuals because they are rare to encounter in your life.

Later in life, you meet more individuals. Often at work, maybe in college. And you think the same thing. Some of these people are going to be your friends forever. But most will not. Their interests will become different than yours at some point. You move on, wishing them happiness, and they probably will do the same for you. Even if they do not, you still have the positive memories of the past to reflect upon.

It is fascinating to see how people change over time. Sometimes, people change very quickly. Other times, it is like a glacial move. Slowly, they become a different person, and so do you. Different priorities, different perspectives of life, and different areas of interest lead to friendships ending. These and other circumstances have claimed many friendships over the years. It is no one's fault.

At times, it may be a bit of jealousy of somebody getting a prize position, fame, an amazing job, wealth, educational degrees, and maybe accolades from their peer group. But just like you cannot return to your first house, you cannot relive what you had in high school. Life keeps pushing forward, as will you and all the friends and people you once cared about. Time is the ultimate reason why relationships falter.

So, treasure the people in your life right now. Treasure the people who are your lifelong friends. Make memories. Go out and eat. Have adventures they can share with their grandkids once you are no longer in their life. Friendships come and go, but strong memories never do. Hopefully, you can look back and smile and realize nothing is wrong. It is just that people get older, and their perspectives on life change. If this has not happened to you, it will. Trust me, everything is going to be all right.

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Last Time You Remembered

 Last Time You Remembered 

Think of the last time you went somewhere. Or the last time you talked to one of your friends. The last time you saw a distant relative. That place that you loved is now something else. All those memories are a part of you. Do you wonder how accurate these memories are? How many of these memories have altered in time?

With all the technology available today, recording and documenting events is easy. If you did not take a photo of it, did it really happen? Proving that you were there is more important than just being there. By documenting all your experiences with technology, are you missing out on the actual event?

With all the technology we use to record our daily lives, does this lead to the atrophy of our memories? Twenty years from now, will you be able to remember any event without looking at photos or watching videos of the past? Once we rely exclusively on technology for our memories, does that mean those memories never existed?

Going out and experiencing life does lead to a fuller existence. Try to be in the moment, not documenting the moment for your next big event. Perhaps limit yourself to one picture or video to focus on the experience of just being there the rest of the time. This may lead to more fulfilling experiences and aid with strengthening your memory once technology fails you.

It is your life. Experience it the way you want. Hopefully, when you look back, you can remember the last time you did something or talked to someone. And you can share those memories with those who will listen to you in your maturity. 

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Redemption Starts One Step At A Time

 Redemption Starts One Step At A Time 

Filmmakers make films. The challenge of being an independent filmmaker is having little funds and support but having a bunch of creativity. Also, finding the time to make a film can be challenging for independent filmmakers. Also, finding the time to make a film is challenging for any independent filmmaker. Another challenge is finding individuals willing to donate their time as actors, crew, and other positions important for filmmakers. Ultimately, filmmaking is an act of creativity that requires collaboration with many individuals. With so many time constraints for individuals, this is a big challenge for independent filmmakers.

So why make a film when it is so difficult? Once they leave film school, many filmmakers never make another independent film themselves.  They may work in the industry, but they no longer have the passion to create their own art of filmmaking. The previous challenges addressed add to this, but the main reason is that making a film yourself is difficult. 

The challenges of making their own film become less important for many once they have a regular job, a family, and many other obligations that life requires. However, those few individuals who continue to create art, regardless of all these obstacles, tell you a lot about their drive and creativity that has to be unleashed. For these independent filmmakers, the film is there. For these filmmakers, they just have to chisel the rock away from this sculpture. They can see a final product in their mind's eye and have the skill set, determination, and drive to make it come to fruition. Each time a challenge appears, they dig deep from within to solve the problem. These individuals have a mindset that refuses to give up.

So, whatever drives you as a creative individual, go out there and make your art. Do not let others bring you down. Obstacles can be overcome with innovative solutions. Forget the naysayers. You have the ability to create and make it happen. When you believe, you achieve.

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After And What?

 After And What?

When you were a kid, you waited forever for your favorite day. As you age, so do the days. That day seems to appear faster and sooner each year. One day, all of your days will start to blend without you being able to distinguish one day from another.

Each day is a special gift that the world has given you. Perhaps since we are given this gift, we should find ways to share our gifts with others. The world is full of people with so many talents. Imagine helping each other out when we need a helping hand. The world could be a marvelous rejuvenating hub for creativity, exploration, and learning.

Instead of asking what the world should give us, we should ask what we can do to make the world a better place. We are only on this mortal coil for a short time. Once you are gone, people who remember you as a positive and helpful individual, what a great way to be remembered. 

So go out and make the world a better place. Do not wait for a phone call. You make the phone call. And even if that phone call is difficult, you have the strength to make it happen. Believe in the process, and you can achieve your goals.

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